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Originally Posted by RealJames
My 2 cents on the OP.
Asian girls: submissive, habituated to a male dominated society
in other words: cooking, cleaning, intimate things that I wont go into, not so confrontational about idiotic things
Western girls: generally not all the things listed above, strong ideals, opinionated, idealistic, argumentative
these are all very strong stereotypes but they are somewhat true
If you reverse the situation with men it explains why Asian girls love western men, gentlemen and are used to putting up with western girls so to them Asian girls are this huge relief lol
once again, stereotypes, often true but many girls from all cultures don't fit their cultures stereotype (my Japanese gf for example is so far from submissive >< )
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That is a good description of the PUBLIC stereotypes. But in private all bets are off. The "submissive" Asian girlfriend can, and usually will, make it clear who is in charge when the couple is alone. And its not unusual for a western woman who is very "assertive" in public to be rather amenable and relaxed when out of the public eye. I have known many a Japanese, Korean or Chinese woman who ruled their personal relationship even more strictly than I manage an business office.
My somewhat sadistic sense of humor is frequently entertained by American man who suddenly discover that cute little Asian girl can tear him a new one in a heartbeat. I find it rather comical when assumptions come back to bite those who don't pay enough attention to others.