[RealJames]

I think you're right that it's a common issue.

Perhaps it's because a lot of good looking guys, as with good looking girls, often have insecurity issues, and aren't aware of where they stand or what they could really get.

Even if a girl knows she's hot the guy she might like probably doesn't feel he deserves her. Despite the growing strength of women in the world, most still don't feel comfortable asking a guy out, so the confident guy will have a better chance than the confident woman at getting what he wants.

Ideas?