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12-14-2010, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by missprincess View Post
i think u need to get over the fact that not all women wanna work in their life and that theres nothing sexist about it at all, i find it kinda stupid that a women needs to prove she can do a mans jobs by busting her hump at work then coming home and doing all the household chores too - that aint smart to me - generally when u get something for nothing thats smarter then having to work 12 hours a day for it - and there aint nothing wrong with wanting to do that in life (for eg if a man sed that he wanted to be a stay at home dad and that was his goal in life) is that sexist? er nope - so why shud it be for a women, not every women feels oppressed by 'staying at home' - and u cant shove ur ideals down someone elses throat like that so really love u shud be ashamed

and at no point did anyone say anyone was superior to anyone - now ur just putting words in my mouth
There is no such thing as "a man's job" << that right here is sexist.

Who said women are the ones who have to do all the house chores? I expect my husband to do as much as I do. I would never share a house with anyone (neither men nor women) who'd be unwilling to do shit for the house. It's two adults living in there, so they have to do the same amount of house chores, no matter what they were born with between the legs. What isn't smart is to assume that laundry and dishwashing is your task to do because you've been born a woman << again, that is sexist.

And if you believe the whole point of working is getting paid then yeah sure, it's better to just get the money without bothering to do anything in exchange. But the thing is, some people enjoy their job. Some people are good at something other than doing house work and have real goals, and guess what!? Women can have professional ambitions too! Yes! It's ok for a woman to devote herself to her job and it's ok for a man to pick up a broom and sweep.

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Originally Posted by RealJames
In lawschool she can meet smart, rich, lawyers, right? It's the perfect place to be for someone who would like to be a housewife...
It's so very sad that someone's biggest ambition is to become a housewife. I mean, going to lawschool so that you can meet a wealthy guy and do nothing but house chores and take the kids to school? Dude, what a life perspective.


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Originally Posted by RealJames
Suki you wouldn't last a day in Japan with that kind of thinking, don't get me wrong, I like the idea of my woman working so I don't have to do it so much it's just unlikely for me around here lol
That's fine by me cause I don't wish to go to Japan and make a life there.


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