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Originally Posted by dogsbody70
you were expecting your husband to stay at home if it suited YOU.
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Yeah, just like I'm gonna be the one staying if he can't do it cause of his job. I said share responsabilities equally, that means we share the task of raising our children. What's wrong with that?
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Originally Posted by dogsbody70
why should a man do that especially if he has a caree
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Same reason why a woman should/should not do it.
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Originally Posted by dogsbody70
Yes it should be a shared responsibility--- where possible-- otherwise best not to bring the children into the world in the first place if Career is all that matters.
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When did I say career is all that matters...? I didn't. Moreover, I said I'd sacrifice my career for my children anytime
if I
had to, but I hope it never comes down to that.
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Originally Posted by dogsbody70
I personally would have hated other people to bring up my own children.
usually these days they go to day care-- nursery school and so on.never actually get to know their parents or vice versa
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I went to day care and I didn't grow up to be a traumatized child. I got to play with other kids while my mom was out doing her job which she needed to do in order to provide me with all the best, which she did, so I'm thankful she didn't quit her job for me.
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Originally Posted by dogsbody70
good luck in the future. But life is not all about SELF
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Misa answered this one for me so I'm quoting her:
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Originally Posted by MissMisa
I believe it's better to have a career and have children, because it teaches your children morals and gives them a good work ethic. It's possible to have a good balance. It doesn't have to be work OR children.
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And I never said I didn't want children, all I said is, AS OF NOW, my career is what matters the most to me.
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Originally Posted by StonerPenguin
I find it a little ironic Suki is being called selfish for wanting to pursue a career to the best of her ability
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Yeah, they can't handle a woman being successful in what they call a man's world. Whatever. Bunch of sexist hypocrites.