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12-19-2010, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by dogsbody70 View Post
So what happens if neither of them want to stay at HOME? Employ A NANNY? an AU PAIR-- Send them to day care from about six weeks of age--

Or even expect grand parents to look after the child which does happen a lot-- but that is also expecting a lot.
What is wrong with that? I had a nanny who'd come by our house early in the morning, wake me up, have me dressed and take me to school, then come pick me up at school and take me home, and then leave after my parents got home. I didn't think of her as an stranger taking care of me cause my parents didn't love me enough or something. She was sweet and I liked having her around. No trauma.

And day care is just fine. They are well-attended and get to play around with other kids, probably having more fun than they would if they were home with their mommy, with whom they get to spend time later in the day, so I don't see what the big deal is, really.


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