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12-19-2010, 03:23 PM

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Anyway, I can't understaind why someone would choose not to go big in their field cause they'd rather be a housewife.
She said some other things too....
What's so wring with my statement? Being a housewife isn't the same as having an actual job. What big ambitions regarding her "job" can one housewife have? None. Because they can't thrive and become better at what they do cause it doesn't really make a difference. If a woman chooses to be a housewife it's fine, I don't have anything against it, all I'm saying is she shouldn't be pushed to quit her job because society expects her to. And I'm not saying "let all women work hard while men stay home and take care of the kids", what I'm saying is (and I'm quoting Robin this time):

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If I'm right what she said was something like 'if I'm busy with my career one day I'd like my husband to watch the kids, and if he's busy one day with his career then I'd do the same for him'. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. If both parents are parenting equally and not demanding anything from one another, then there's nothing wrong with that. It's not as though they're abandonning their responsibilities, right?
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really this started because of someone saying that she expected the man to look after the child-- so that she could carry on her own career.
I never said anything resembling that. Get over it.


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