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Originally Posted by dogsbody70
Are you so sure because it sure read like that to me. You were really saying that nothing would get in the way of your career choice.
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I'll refrain from saying what it sounds to me like Suki actually said, because she can speak for herself when she sees the message later, and because it's starting to feel rude to me with all this 'what Suki said' business that a few of us have started to do . . .
How I interpretted her messages however was - and my own personal opinion on things is - that women should have a
choice whether to work, or stay at home, or both, and if a woman wants to work and have a career whilst having children then she should be able to. It shouldn't have to be either/or, where you have to sacrifice either family to have a career or a career to have a family. Likewise the role of 'caregiver' to the children shouldn't be automatically given to the 'woman', because men are just as capable of looking after children as women are, and - in a fair world - both should have equal roles in raising the children and support each other both with childrearing and with their careers. It's perfectly possible to balance both