[MissMisa]

I don't even think we disagree that drastically.

Personally I think having a kid would be the easy way out for me right now, if that's offensive to mothers then, oh dear, I'm offensive.

And protheus, I don't get why that's shocking. In England we have a huge 'benefit culture', with the highest teen unemployement in Europe. What I remember from Sociology is that this is down to a number of factors, one of which is unemployed parents sitting on benefits setting a bad example to their child. But that's the other end of the scale and not what anyone was saying.