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I think life is wonderful because there are different creatures in it. I might be old fashioned to say this but I love to see these differences, and I also think we can lose ourselves so easily and became something we weren't at the beginning, so yes men should differ from women.

@MissMisa sorry to say but you obviously don't know what you are talking about.
Not working women/mother/men/father and the one who stays at home with the baby while it's necessary is very different. You seem to understand the slightest differences when it pleases you and make it harder to see when it doesn't.

It's not without reason that in almost every society there are similar things happening to the children. First a child needs the process of being born, than to be with the mother in a very close body to body contact for they lived together for the whole time before. It's not about letting him go to live his life cause he's already alive - we are not sharks, but even they keep their babies close in the beginning.
Even than a baby has many different needs which I won't specify, but you need to know it's so easy to miss those things, and if you are not with your BABY you'll never know.
It's not that you'll make him miserable if you aren't with him, it's just that you'll never get the chance to do those things apart from that certain time. It's his and your life no-one else'. And yeah I do believe women do it better because it's more natural for them but I don't say that to offend men, so please forgive me men if I offended you!!! And I've also seen despeakable women who'd better not to give life, and wonderful father who could do whatever is needed - it's just not the majority and sorry to disappoint you, but also never will be!!