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Originally Posted by RobinMask
I don't understand why you're against parents leaving their child with another perosn whilst they work. If we assume that the parents are leaving their child with a loving nurturing adult, one who will attend the childs needs and not neglect or abuse them, then the parents return later on in the day/night to spend considerable/quality time with the child, then what would be the problem? The child knows who it's parents are, it loves them, and those few hours apart don't serve as a problem. If anything it teaches the child to socialise and interact with people other than its parents, and it gives it a wider world view and teaches it respect of other adults. Why would it be deteremental to a child?
Also - just because it's been annoying me, lol - I have to ask you. . . you keep saying men and women are different. I get that, biologically and psychologically we are, and children can relate differently to each parent depending on gender/age etc. When it comes to parenting though what do you think the difference should be (or is) between the father and the mother? And if there is a difference - aside from cultural and sociological expectations - why should there be a difference?
I would also ask where is your evidence it's better to have a two-person family. I could give anecdotal evidence why single-parent families or same-sex parents can be better in the long-run for a child, but I would like to see objective/scientific evidence that different-sexed two-parent families are better, if that is what the claim is.
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Men and women are very different. nature provided Mothers to carry the child in her womb, to breast feed her child. Mothers should know instinctively how to treat and care for her child.
Not all do of course-- as I know to my own cost.
How can one be sure that where ever their child is placed in day care or nurseries, that the child will be looked after properly?
There have been many stories of badly run nurseries. usually the staff are underpaid.
No doubt if parents earn enough to employ a GOOD NANNY-- they can leave their child in that nannys care--BUT--------------- How do they know how that child is treated when they are not there?
child minders are usually CB checked-- but does that mean they know how to care for YOUR child in the way that YOu would wish.
How safe are they?
There was a lot of abuse in foster homes and in childrens homes. because there was nobody there to supervise them.
children were supposed to be cared for-- but too many were-- and ARE NOT.