[MissMisa]

No, it would be easier for me, at this point in time. Only I can tell you that.


My friend is the same age as me, same income, same family, same nursery, same primary school, same high school.

She had a kid at 18, I didn't.

Right now her life is easier than mine - she says it herself.

But that's just the here and now. When I've finished everything and I have a cushy job, a nice house and decent wage (hopefully) she'll be lumbered with kids still and it's damned hard work. I've looked after her kid many times and I know it's not easy.

I thought having a child would be harder than what I'm doing now until our lives have been running a parallel and she's got it easier than me atm. Personally I think the myth works the other way round.


I've said many times I don't want kids. If I had a kid, I'd hate it, it'd be unwanted, and I wouldn't care about it at all. This is why I would not have a kid under any circumstances, duh. D:


If I liked kids and wanted kids, of course I'd care who looked after them. But that person doesn't have to be ME just in case something obscure might happen. It'd be me some of the time because I liked to spend time with the kid and it'd be a nanny the other times so I could work and have a break. Why is that bad?