[dogsbody70]

as usual Nyrororin you write alot of SENSE. I really respect you and your opinions.

I would like to PM you if that is okay with you.


I can understand so much of what you say because of the way YOU were expected to do the child raising for your Mother.

Often older girls Were expected to do that and it can be so unfair.

I have a very good friend who still talks about the way that she had to always be there for her baby brother-- to do the chores--not allowed to go out-- so inhibiting her own development and tieing her down for many years.


In the days before contraception-- here in UK women had many children-- and it often meant the older children bringing up their younger siblings


I really feel for those women who must have dreaded Friday night after the PUB closed.


I have to agree with so much of what you say.


PS: In this country we have many children Caring for their own parent/s. Young Carers they are called, and they are expected to help their disabled parent as well as try to go to school.


I think its a disgrace that our country allows this to happen and not providing proper help for those families