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Originally Posted by Suki
Womanizer much...? 
Anyway, that's just plain wrong. Who wants to be with a guy who's trying hard to not cheat on you? I mean, I want a guy who doesn't have to stop himself from cheating cause, if we're ok, he shouldn't even have the urge to do so. I'd dump the guy straight away if being with me meant he's making an effort to not be fucking anyone else. Your resolution should be to stop wanting to screw other women. Work hard on that. |
This merits clarification, and a proper rebuttal ^^b
First of all, you're right, being with someone who is making an effort to not cheat sucks either way.
Secondly, your desire for a partner who is unphased by his or her sexual attraction to others because you're so awesome is perfectly right, and so unrealistic.
The most attractive thing about a new woman (or man) is in fact that she is new, at first with my girlfriend there was no issue.
What husband in the world doesn't check out and dream about younger girls? none, you're in a dreamland or believing the lies if you think otherwise...
If being a womanizer means I can appreciate the beauty and intelligence of women without thinking any less of them than I do myself, then so be it. I don't think less of a woman who is interested in many men because they all have different unique qualities that she enjoys.
The problem starts when enjoying them leads to multiple sexual relationships, then it's not so much a womanizer as a promiscuous man-whore, which is what I'm wanting to avoid.
Every long-term relationship in the world lacks the thrill and heartthrob of a new relationship, and it's okay to miss that.
I don't hide any of this from my gf, she knows and understands, it's not like I love her any less. She's understanding, and feels the same way towards men, but we both know that what we have is better than the thrill of a fling.
anyways, throw in the problem of having women who I consider out of my league making themselves available to me, and it makes it more irritating