[dogsbody70]

none of this is my business of course.. I feel that of course its okay to still have friends of the opposite sex-- crikey it would be crazy having to avoid them and just because I am married does not mean that I am blind to others.

No I don't or didn't want sex with them-- I am not a Man-- but if one loves one partner-- then one would normally not be tempted to stray elsewhere.

Much must depend on how serious a relationship is surely.

Loyalty should be mutual in a steady relationship.

not meaning that you should become a hermit or blind or deaf towards the opposite sex.



If a relationship is mutually EASY with NO ties or commitments on either side then I guess its up to the individual.

It can take along time to really get to know each other.

I have many friends of both sexes thank goodness.


I admire many of them.


Somewhere earlier on here--James mentioned that his Girl friend's mother said she would kill herself if her husband went with a hostess.

maybe this should be on the relationships thread.


I do believe that in a real and genuine relationship-- Loyalty should be a Given.

but no need to shut out all other friendships.