Quote:
Originally Posted by SSJup81
Some women just don't have that natural urge to become a mother or either the woman's biological clock isn't ticking or has "timed out". I know, for me, my "ticking" was strong when I was in my early to mid 20s, but by the time I reached about 25, it started to die off. At this point in my life, I have no particular desire to actually become a mother, which is ironic because I really love kids. Either way, the urge just isn't there anymore. I also have no desire to marry ever. I've felt like this since I was a kid and I grew up in a stable two-parent home. The idea of marriage has just never appealed to me since I lack the patience to put up with a husband. Funny how I have patience with kids, though.
I'm also not sure if I could handle raising a child, even though I've been told I'd probably do well because I get along with young children so well, while also making sure that said children know his/her boundaries as I do believe that children should be disciplined whenever they do something wrong, whether it be taking a toy away or punishing them or taking away something they really like, etc. With the way society is now, I'm not sure if I could do it anyway. I'm kind of old-fashioned, and I'm sure my "old-fashioned" ways would clash with this modern society. I've even been told one time, "You need to join the 21st century." That was earlier this year. lol
|
I am sure you are right here. Not all women Do want to have children and when you see the behaviour fo some badly disciplined children its enough to put you off for ever.
I am sure that was my own mothers view-- which is why she got rid of me or I was taken away from her.
Actually I love dogs and horses best. I have bred dogs for many years and get so much pleasure from them.