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01-02-2011, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by dogsbody70 View Post
I still have problems in thinking father and mother is seen as having the same role.

I personally believe that women will treat their child differently from the way a man might. Surely its instinctive to a woman.

I do believe that it should be better to have both parents but how many men have the chance or time to relate with their own child. Yes I know there are men that take on that role now-- maybe they might be better with a boy rather than a girl because of understanding what its like to be male.

maybe I am talking rot but I still think we are definitely different--thank goodness.
Well, my situation is an interesting one. My earlier years, I was always with my father. He was the main one to take care of me during the day and stuff. When we moved that final time and I was in 4th grade and he went to one of my school functions, one person actually asked if my father was a widower since no one had ever seen my mother. lol But like I said, for that school, her job was too far away for her to be active in it like my previous two elementary schools.

It may be more instinctive for women, but men can be good fathers/parents too and as loving as a mother can be.
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