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Originally Posted by MissMisa
Personally I think it's pretty awful your girlfriend is forcing you to keep a child you had no intention of keeping. (Old people will tell you OMG IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU GOTTA HAVE BABIES ETC but yeah.) If someone forced me to have a child, I'd be really upset/pissed off. Which I'm sure in some ways you are. She's 19, she sounds pretty stupid for wanting to keep it at that age when you are at University. (Seems like a selfish thing to do with morals or something, I don't know.) That is probably going to be controversial and judgemental but that was my initial reaction for you.
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I'm going to have to agree here.
I think it's the mothers body and she should have the right to decide what happens to it but you don't have the obligation to stay with her.
Get out of your relationship with her if you want. Be there for the kid if you feel like it (though I'm going to say that I don't think this is your obligation either).