It finally comes to her decision, she is the one which will need to carry it/her/him, feed it the first weeks after birth and I respect her decision. If she changes her mind after the fact is done, why some of you blame her?
About him, he isn't pinned down to stay, but he may choose to. ( I respect both choices)
Anyway, its clear, sex wasn't created for baby making, I wonder how sometimes something goes wrong and one pops up
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PS:Trusting a ~0.1 mm thin sheet of rubber/latex/other compounds to protect you from baby-consequences is a lottery with a 2% "win" chance.
Condom wiki ("...women whose partners use male condoms experience a 2% per-year pregnancy rate)...."
Trusting a pill is another lottery. Conception had about 5 million years to develop, man only had about 20.000 years to find a way to stop its purpose and barely managed something towards that in the last 100 or so years. The methods are still not perfect, but are good enough, talking in chances.