[RealJames]

I think there's a considerably big difference between a dead-beat dad that hits the road and a 20 year old boy that admits to himself it's no time for him to be a father, and that his gf should honestly admit the same thing to herself about being a mother.

EDIT: I think it depends largely on age honestly, responsibility for your actions is incredibly important but only past a certain age, 20 is pretty borderline, most the 20 year olds I meet are borderline retarded.