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01-19-2011, 08:10 PM

for me, not very well i guess. i mean, right after being rejected, from a job interview or what not, i always tend to get very affected and most of the time it really takes a while for me to get over the fact that its happend.
i try to break scenarios down, and as much as i could, know exactly where ive gone wrong. although i think, being able to reflect deeply on the situation allows me to really learn from it.

i think, memmories embedded with deep emotions such as that of failure and rejection tend to really stick inside the brain although positive reinforcement they say, is prolly a better way to learn lol.

i think, how well a person deals with rejection depends on how much effort and self worth one gives to own self.
i usually think, that things that have happend. would probably have happend either ways, and the logical and productive way to react is make sure that you learn from it and be very objective at where you stand at the moment, and the best possble approach to get your goal. some people get things easier, maybe because they were genetically predisposed to be smarter and all, but that just means that you may have to work extra harder, and i think thats way better than just rolling over and playing dead.

with relationships and what not.. ive been rejected 2x (that i was serious about). and now, im still friends with those 2 girls. or so i believe. lol. with the last one, i havnt gotten over her completely, and i dont really know if i ever will. im hoping to see her again, and take it from there.
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