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Originally Posted by MissMisa
The guys ask first thing is BS, because I've asked all of my bfs out first and none of them minded it. And they all said yes, so they must have at least liked me a bit, hah. (I've had 3, just so it doesn't sound like I've had 10 billion.)
I don't really think it's that hard to ask someone out.
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THIS. I know loads of girls who have asked their BF's out, including my sister. You know what ladies? A lot of guys ~like~ it. I've never managed it outright myself (one was in a slightly awkward situation, and if he didn't say anything I resolved I wouldn't either and another jumped the gun), but I have definitely initialized the 'asking out' scenario or invited interested parties to casual group events. I mean, even if you don't say the words yourself, you can at least offer up opportunities on a plate. You gain squat all by being dithery and aloof.