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Brass (Offline)
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01-21-2011, 11:46 PM

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Personally I prefer guys with long hair and to be shorter than me! And I don't like muscle. Haha. But I might be rare, so your tips might be worthwhile...
You are rare. But yeah I told him he has to tailor his looks to the type of girl he is going for.

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Noooo idea about girls in bars, since whenever someone chats me up at a bar I'm like *blankkk* which is slightly snobby but a) I'm shy and b) if I'm interested I'll do it myself. Which is slightly contradictory but MEH. I can do it if needed.
Yeah, sounds like you're not the regular bar/club whore. They are a completely different animal. No offense of course I don't particularly like club whores either.

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If you learn some social skills the way you look is less relevent since females in general are less picky about it. That's just in general though, but if you are charming then it doesn't matter as much. Most girls DO actually really care about appearance though so might be good to take Brass's advice appearance wise, I don't know what the typical girl actually likes or w/e.
Going to have to disagree with this. Social skills usually only work if you're trying to pick up a girl in your clique. If you're trying to pick up a stranger (on the street/bar/club/whatever) looks are EXTREMELY important. If a chick doesn't know you, you better visually pique her interest in the first 3 seconds or anything you say after that will be one ear and out the other.