[dogsbody70]

um you could be right I suppose but aren't men much more agressive than women. more suitable for war. somewhere I read that Testosterone helps make a man Macho and masculine and also that Oestrogen can make women wish to be dominating. I have no real idea only judge by those I meet in every day life.

There are always masses of theories. Often Gay men are very feminine in their ways and lesbians vice versa-- some are masculine where their partners might be more feminine.

I also do agree that Nurture or lack of it can affect us strongly. Our education or lack of.

I like men to be real men--but often have found that Gay men are very artistic.

Also of course our Genes must affect us but circumstances of every day life also. we react or respond in certain ways to certain situations.

I was watching aprogramme last night about the way children who were used in the Industrial revolution and girls had to work as hard as the boys in many awful situations.

I was a tom boy as a child-- hated all things girly. Now I suspect I behave as a woman-- I am not as clever as my husband-- he has a very logical way of thinking and also brilliant with lateral thinking. We have lived together for over 44 years-- yet we are worlds apart in our thinking.

No doubt many women can do the same work as men or even same sports etc. Maybe our background does make us the person we are whether male or female but I like to know the difference between the genders.

I get on with both if we share similar interests--


I have six grand children and the girls are so different from our only gr. son. He always like games that Mean Killing. Always liked violent games. The girls are on a totally different wave length to him. too keen on latest fashions and accessories etc.