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Originally Posted by Crystalline
I don´t know what I said that was wrong, but if you think i have eyes set on Japan, because i "dream" of a perfect society and whatnot, then you´re wrong.
Every country, society, etc has bad people. Period. That´s something we can´t run away from. It´s our world. Sadly, it´s like that.
I am perfectly aware of that.
However, if that´s not the reason you want to "slam" me for.. Then disregard what i said. So what is the reason then?
The reason i asked this question, was because i didn´t know if they accepted foreigners or not. If you think of me as some sort of an ignorant person, or anything similar for asking that question, then i don´t know what to say... That´s what forums like these are here for. To ask questions and get answers.
Keep in mind, i´m not acusing anyone of anything.
Regarding the whole visiting of japan.
No i haven´t. Next year i will definitly pay a visit to it.
I love japan. The emotional value of that country to me is nearly endless. I love everything about it. I hate my own country´s culture to be honest.
I love their food. Their culture. The things they have accomplished. Their People. ( even though i never went there. I have several friends who live there. ) Technological marvels. Anime, Manga. You name it.
Call it lack of patriotism. I don´t care. It doesn´t matter where we´re born at. We must all follow our hearts, and find our place in this world =) For me. Japan is more than the "Wow. amazing country! I have to go there someday"
For me, it´s paradise. It is a personal choice. If you don´t agree with me, that´s fine. We are all entitled to our own choices =)
But that´s just the way I am. I love it. I love everything about it.
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You didn't say anything wrong. I'm sure your questions were honest. Without being able to read the intentions, words sometimes come out harsh.
What I'm trying to say is: You're not the only one who has joined this forum with the same questions and I have the feeling some of the old-timers here had a "Oh no, not again!" moment. It is nothing personal and I know most people here are quite cool most of the time, but when a subject comes up like "wanting to move to Japan or get a job in Japan when someone doesn't really know what it entails", I think they've answered these questions quite a few times and it becomes almost annoying. I'm not trying to put words in their mouths, just trying to understand their point of view.
Am I wrong here? Probably not. They are offering very good advice even if it may sound harsh or demoralizing. I hope you understand and don't harbor any ill-will....