Thread Purpose/Goal:
There are people in need of help with their Japanese girlfriend/wives and they don't know where to turn.
Counseling is usually out of the question with Japanese women (a cultural thing.)
Some people may be forced to live in Japan, and give up their high paying jobs in their home country.
Or maybe they are not sure if they should get married right now...
So when in trouble, type an issue into Google, and here pops up my list. I can't give advice how to solve their problems, but at least they will know they are not alone.
As for me, I have a 2 month temp job at a law firm (state side),
reviewing cases of Japanese women abducting their children and flying back to Japan. The men my firm are defending seem to be truly good husbands. I also compare these cases to the 9 years of issues I have experienced in Japan, and I am sorry it's just unacceptable.
I am sure we all have had good times, but we cant let it over shadow the underlining problems... I hate to say it again (and it sounds barbaric of me), but trying to change them, is like polishing a turd because you cant (unless its Myth Busters.) So all you can do is change your perception of the problem and turn that turd into an ice cream for two. Please no one post a link to the video we are all thinking of
