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Originally Posted by dogsbody70
I wonder if men respect women who sleep around or vice versa. what do women think if men think you are easy.
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what do women think of their female friends who they know are promiscuous.
...-- is it more natural for a man than for a woman?
Is it safe?
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I'd never respect someone just because s/he sleeps around a lot :P.
It's not something I cannot tolerate but somehow I never had deep(or any kind of) relationship with anyone who had more one-night stands than she could count or at least it hasn't been something that they would discuss with me. Back in the University there were rumors about a few people who didn't really care who they slept with, but I hadn't given much attention of those rumors anyway so I guess I have not much experience in this. (Of course I watch movies and I could list dozens of characters who cheated on everyone and slept around all the time etc. but in reality I never really meet these types...)
About being easy, I wish I'd never met (nor heard) any men who wanted an easy women - it's just disgusting, they make all this so cheep and shallow.
I think a women (except maybe some of the women) would never speak about sex so openly than many of the men can. Even here there are a few who can declare they seek sex when they're going to Japan and one of them says he only wants sex from women and nothing more, I cannot imagine a women could do this. Of course it doesn't prove anything, whether men or women do it more naturally I cannot decide, maybe it depends on the personality or the age or the mental state.
(I've found an article about it:
Women have more regrets than men over one night stands - Telegraph)
But even a one night stand requires two people - and if we don't consider gay relationships it must be an equal amount of man and women - so I guess it cannot be decided by which party does it more... but according to that article men do it more easily and more women feel like they've been deceived afterward.
I think it's definitely not safe, it'd be unnecessary to give a list of the possible diseases but there are quite a many and yes there are contraceptives, but they cannot cover all of them... Not the mention the mental aftereffects...