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Originally Posted by Sitron
You don't understand - she told me she had never had a boyfriend before, yet she says "I love you to a guy" after he tells her I love you, even though this was back in november.
She tells me, nobody ever calls her pretty, yet her pictures are full of comments BY GUYS about how pretty she looks. She's also from a poorer country.
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Facebook is the internet . . . people comment, they say things, they may or may not mean the things they say. If people told me I was pretty/ugly/gorgeous/hideous on Facebook I wouldn't pay much attention, or at least not the same way I would in real life, because real life is what matters. On the internet it's a bunch of strangers talking through a keybaord - maybe she doesn't count that as a real compliment, maybe in real life no one has ever told her she's pretty?
I occasionally get complimented online, never in real life. Should I go around declaring my awesome sexiness? No. Because the internet is not real life, it doesn't count as squat.
As for the "boyfriend"? How do you know he isn't a brother, friend, colleague or even a random stranger that she's just joking back with, like 'haha, sure, I love you too'? Seriously - you seem very paranoid and quick to judge. In a relationship you need trust, and if you can't trust this girl then why do you even want to talk to her or be with her?