[RealJames]

I get the whole appeal to it, despite it not being my style.

But I think it's important for all westerners to understand that regardless of how much a japanese guy may desire for his girlfriend to look and behave like a 10 year old, he would never consider doing anything to a 10 year old girl.

Then again, my ex had a 42 year old (married) boyfriend just after turning 14. And that's not an isolated incident as far girls I've met are concerned, so it does seem to happen a tad more here, at least in my experience, statutory rape, that is.