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Since when does following fashion trends make one weak, have low self-esteem, have a poor family life, etc? I have never read anything so odd.

It is natural to follow trends and social norms. I am from the Pacific NW, and here things tend to be fairly relaxed, so when I have visited places like Washington DC I was surprised to see every man in a suit and tie... almost without fail. In Oregon our governor wears blue jeans to work.

So when I am in DC I wear a suit and tie, as it is what is expected. This is following the social norm. In Oregon I never use an umbrella... it is the first sign of a tourist... but in Japan I do. It has nothing to do with familial relationships or child abuse, it is simply about fitting in.

NOTE: Moved from another thread