[macki06]

yeah thats true.. conflict brings about change. and i dont know, i guess one can hope it is for the better.

thats a good point about lying and or being polite.

i hate lying, sometimes i wish people would not ask me for my opinion about things, i hate it when someone puts you in an awkward position to say things that you are not really interested about or you havent got a lot of good thigns to say lol.

and at the end of the line, its also about saying things in an acceptable way to people i guess. not saying no, directly, but saying it will be better to do this blah blah... it works for most people i guess.