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03-01-2011, 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by TalnSG View Post
As one of those ~50 year old western women referred to, there is a factor that may impact us more than our Japanese counterparts.
Western women, especially in the U.S., tend to grow in all proportions considerably more than Asian women between their teens and later years. And western clothing manufacturers become worse and worse (almost daily) at catering to anyone over the age of about 16 these days. If you look at what is sold in even the more trendy department stores for women of my age, we have little or no choice but to wear downdy, frumpy, ill-fitting things that are humiliating to anyone with a sense of fashion. Unless you are extremely rich and can afford a private tailor, you eventually tire of the fight and wear the best you can abide being seen in. And if you are also over a size 12, you might as well just forget looking attractive in 90% of what is in the stores. The buyers seem to think we should all wear cheap looking t-shirts, baggy slacks, sweat suits. Half of what is on the racks do not even meet my companies definition as Business Casual.

The other factor is that after a certain age, one's budget for high fashion clothing tends to be re-apportioned for more substantial things like home furnishings, cars, medical insurance/expenses, etc. Being the fashion plate to seem attractive to others is less important than other needs of a family and home.
I'm glad you mentioned that, I was worried about getting flamed if I said that in general Asian women don't gain as much weight as they age as their western counterparts. ><
I think the manufacturers are in fact a big part of it, but also people's perspectives of "what is okay for people of different ages to wear".
The cheap shopping arcades here cater to women of all ages and even the poorer ones can pull off a reasonably fashionable outfit for pretty cheap.


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