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Originally Posted by junicorn
I really don't understand this. I like my men to be masculine men. I like long hair and short hair on guys, but not makeup. It can be cute from far away. but I would not actually date a guy if he is effeminate. In my opinion, I think girls have kind of messed things up for themselves. Now boys don't know what to be and they are taking on more passive roles. At least here in Japan where I am living. I think girls like girly boys because they feel like they have some kind of power over the guy if they portray themselves as the "weaker" sex...
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Go figure. That's just the sort of thing I heard girls say. They liked big tough masculine men who could protect them. I had a mix of girls I dated. Some confident and some shy but both wanted to be able to talk to me and they liked the confidence that I had to dress how I wanted. Imo there is no "weaker sex", girls can do 99% of what a guy can do. I've seen girls beat guys up and they where
very feminine. Not butch.