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03-10-2011, 08:09 PM

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I understand that people in relationships need to feel needed, but do I really have to fake needing stupid chores done for me to achieve that?

I'm not talking about a long-winded heart to heart about how I want and need him in my life, but an honest comment now and then without having to stoop to the whole farce of 'Oh me oh my, my lightbulb is brokened. Oh whatsoever shall I do, being the poor delicate girl that I am. I need a MAN."
I see the problem now. You're taking it all too literally. Just find what he can do and make use of it in your life. Is he an accountant? Let him do your taxes or handle your finances. Is he an educator? Find a way to make use of his respective skills. Is he in construction, let him work on loose plumbing....or the occasional light bulb
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