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Originally Posted by RealJames
I'm seriously not trying to stop you from going, just trying to stop you from going with the wrong idea. Basically to prevent another disappointed former-Japan-lover.
And seriously, your behavior here HAS been very close minded, lots of people who HAVE or DO live in Japan are trying to give you advice and change your misconceptions and instead you throw it back in their face as though you're omniscient on a topic they clearly have more knowledge about.
A typical Japanese behavior for someone in your position is to shut up and listen to the person with more experience while saying "aaahhh, oooohhh, soooudeska? eeehh? EEEHHH??? naruhodo. etc etc" and then if the Japanese person disagrees with some of the statements, then to quietly, elsewhere, or not at all speak against someone trying to help.
In other words, your arrogance is non-modest and thereby non-Japanese and not seen well at all here (Japan).
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Sorry, but I don't need somebody to tell me that I would know ZERO NADA about Asians. None of you know anything about me and what I experienced. I tried to explain it, but I am only getting bashed here anyway.. because, right we are online^^ on an Interent Forum lol
Sorry, but I do not need people to tell me that I would not belong there and that the Asians I met are totally different to the one who live in Japan and No, I do not need somebody to tell me that life in Japan is only colerful.
The only thing which I can do, is to go there and experience it by my OWN! Everybody thinks differently and approaches things differently. Someone might love Japan and someone might thing it's hell. People are different and people see things different. So I don't need to listen to so much hegativity towards my stay in Japan. I am going there my own and I am going to Korea by my own and I will experience it on my own.
So stop telling me I am not welcome there or that it would be the hell on earth overthere for me jes.. just stop, thanks! I will and always did take the advise I find useful. I don't take some biased advise from people who are DIFFERENT than me.. people are different and I really do not have to time and fun to listen to some "wise-guy" who wants to tell me that my thoughts about the Asian culture is totally flawed lol^^
Just stop Jes.. thats all I'm asking!