[TalnSG]

Good examples with the hair styles. I know two guys here in Texas with exactly that issue going on. One of them is not the least effeminate (except for his hair) and the other has his moments.

I think that over-the-top western "masculinity" effect just serves to reinforce my attraction to Asian men because as I age my tolerance for it continues to evaporate.

Western men can't seem to temper their arrogance with courtesy as well as their Asian counterparts. And it seems to be a matter of both custom and education at times.