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Originally Posted by myk
you can't honestly say that people mainly care about personality.
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Actually yes, I can say that about many people. Not everyone - as you definitely are not among them.
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however, people do tend to be realistic about who they can get. for example, a dude who's a 5 is going to try and get a girl who's a 5 too. maybe a 6. those kinds of people DO tend to have better personality traits. they definitely aren't stuck up like hot people are, and they're usually more empathetic and kind.
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Believe that if you want, but watch out because there are many exceptions to that premise and they can be rather unsettling. And this does not take into account that one's looks change over time - sometimes drastically. Some people look better with age, others do not; so basing preferences on the looks of someone in the 20's is really a crap shoot.
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i think it's misleading to tell everyone in this thread that a great personality is all it really takes.
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No one said it was all it takes, but I think we were rather clear that it is first, foremost and overrides all other considerations.