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Originally Posted by Nyororin
You know what I really hate? People telling me what I should want because I`m a woman - and don`t all women want the same things? Sure, you can toss "most" and "majority" in there to cover what you consider rare exceptions, but you`re still saying that as a woman I should want this or that.
I`ve heard the same thing about circumcision - the majority of women would choose a circumcised penis over one that`s not.
It seems that women are constantly bombarded with messages telling them they should choose a bigger guy, they need a bigger guy, etc etc. I am willing to bet that your "choose from a guy with slightly larger vs. slightly smaller" scenario would be true just as much (if not more) with virgins as those with experience. Why? Because we`re told that a bigger dick is better. I am also willing to admit that there are plenty of women out there who don`t like feeling stretched to the point of pain, but who don`t want to admit it because they SHOULD like a bigger guy. (I have personally met more women who fit this category than the ones who want a huge guy.)
Something I find a bit funny... In Japan, you don`t see the type of "It`s so big!" stuff - "It`s so hard!" is the "porno phrase" here. You don`t see size being pushed, nor do you hear from women or men that "bigger is better". It`s not pushed in media - in fact, most of the women`s magazines here emphasize finding a "good fit for you". In a recent survey in one of the more popular ones, average as best got close to 75% of the votes. Everyone I have talked to about it here is stunned at the prevalence of "large for more pleasure" in western media, and can`t understand why anyone would care unless it was much larger or much smaller than average (both negatives).
So, umm, yeah... If you like big, then that`s perfectly fine. It`s you and your personal experience. But there is a cultural push, and undoubtedly a placebo effect behind some of it.
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Yeah.. well said.
I think it's the same with guys and certain body parts to some extent though I've always been pretty candid with what I find attractive.
For example breasts... I really don't care about them. I'm supposed to like them though according to all the media out there. And while I admit that I find big ones fascinating to an extent... It's not in a "damn that's hot" kinda way. It's more in a "Holy sh*t did you see that?" kinda way.