lol @ illstyle
When you meet her in person isn't it going to rapidly become apparent that someone else has been writing your messages for you?
How are you guys gonna even talk to each other? Sorry if that sounds rude, but I've gotta admit my curiosity is piqued.
Also, regarding your question:
You could say "How do you
write this in Japanese?" or "How do you say this in Japanese (No romaji)?" Although for the most part we don't use romaji on this board anyway, because it's something serious students try to avoid. Only weeaboos use it. Like in "Baka I'm studying Nihongo ^___^" or "OMG r u a real nihonjin KAWAII desu ne"
Ugh...