[dogsbody70]

when marrying man much older-- such as 17 years== Its\ a case of later in life that man will not be as fit or able to do the things he might have done previously/ It can be a heavy weight looking after an older man who is unwell or unfit. My daughters partner is disabled now- and quite a burden for my daughter although she never complains.

I guess good health makes a difference. One can get set in certain ways as one gets older.

Also an older man might die long before his wife--

However if couples of different age group are happy together-- then Hey Ho-- good for them.

I don't think its creepy to love an older man and often women like men who might be fatherly towards them. sort of protective.

I like mature men-- not youngsters who only have one thing on their mind also it should depend on their hobbies and interests. Of course if you are just sleeping around-- apart from under age-- what difference does it make so long as there is repect and not just being used for bodily use.

Older men can be much kinder-- and caring and thoughtful.