[RealJames]

based purely on what I've read from her posts, and on the people I've met here too, Nyororin is about the maximum any westerner can fit into Japanese culture

if you think you can attain that degree without having moved there at a much younger age, you're deluded,

what do you think Nyororin?
Can someone who moves to Japan at a later stage in their lives hope to fit in to the culture the way you do?
How much do you feel you fit in?