[Columbine]

Having known a number of girls who were virgins past 18, maybe it's just my experience, but there's a weird contradiction about girls and virginity too.

As much as it's waxed over as a 'wait till the right time,' 'it's ok to be a virgin', and traditional opinion is that you're supposed to hang onto it until The Time Is Right, there's like an age-limit on that if you haven't got religion as an excuse. If you haven't done it by a certain age all of a sudden it's like 'wow, really? What's wrong with you?' and there is this pressure to 'stop being weird about boys and get laid'. Mostly from other girls, actually. :/

And even if you're religious then you're clearly a massive jesus-freak or a poor repressed muslim or something.

I dunno, I always feel society misses the point when they argue sexual freedom is doing it with whenever, whoever you like and then criticise people who up till now have chosen to not do it at all.