05-26-2011, 08:00 AM
James do you give your girl friend a chance to be more independent of you.
How about giving her opportunities-- to do things she wishes to do.
My daughters husband was a control freak-- she put up with it for ten years-- her life was not her own. Everyone was supposed to do what He demanded.
One partner should not think they own the other. There should be give and take and also encouragement and freedom. Not putting the other down.
Mutal respect is important also.
Not-- Oh I am better than you but I will be kind to you.
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