[tangomike]

I would say my girl and I are equal. we are each good at certain things and not so good in others. ex . I'm musically gifted, have a great memory, terrible at scientific/mathematic things, good writer, un coordinated, can't cook . She has a short attention span, skilled in science and math, great cook, a great drinker even tho i got 70lbs on her (embarassingly she can drink almost as much as I can, sometimes more.....but shes of German descent and Im of Japanese descent so that could be genetics .....thats my excuse lol.

and RealJames I know what you mean. I grew up and live in America only seeing American girls....when I went to Japan when i was 18 I was curious about girls of my race but I was quickly turned off by general immaturity of girls my age. From what I saw American (I cant say Western as I dont know too many girls from Europe) women are much more open and free spirited whereas Japanese girls were more reserved, childlike and bound by social rules.....kind of like how in America kids are bound by stupid social rules in middle and high school....but in Japan social rules are society wide regardless of age. im sure thats where the difference stems from. When I was in Japan I was much more attracted to older women, DAMN THEY WERE SEXY....I didnt find girls my age appealing but the women 25 or older were soooooo sexy cus they were more composed, dress nicer and more mature.



i'm in college now and the Japanese chicks I meet here are 'girls' whereas the other chicks are 'women' to me. sorry to say but thats how i see it