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Originally Posted by BobbyCooper
It's not about the race, it's about their mentality and culture.
Now, I know that Japan is a very Western socialised.. but when you look at real Asians who crew up without any contact to the Western society. They would never cheat on you or try to divorce with you. It has to come from the guy with the Western mindset. But if he Loves her forever, they will never divorce.
It's just the difference in the cultures. People are different and in Asia divorces or cheating on your partner are not a topic because of peoples mindset.
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The action to cheat or not, or to divorce or not is definitely related to people's mentality and their view of value.
But I am telling you that you are not correct, I have no idea where that stereotype came from. 4/6 of my cousins are divorced, 1 of them due to a cheating wife. These are cousins thats older than me by a good 20 years, the divorce happend long ago when everyone still live in Asia
Just because people have no western exposure doesn't mean that they will not suffer from a marriage, if things goes wrong, people will do something about it, its not like they have no tv and don't get exposed or the concept
And lets face it, the "Asian" girls you are exposed to and so attracted to, how did you come across them in the first place? Some form of meida, media thats produced in big towns, not up in the mountain... so what you are attrated to, is purely appearance, appearance that belongs to big citys like Tokyo, Yokohama, Seoul, Beijing, appearnce that is 65%+ dressed up by materials, makeup and clothing... materials that do not belong to a place where there is no Western exposure per say....
The perfect "Asian" that you are referring to, if exist, will not be from big cities. Is it possible, yes definitely, but it has nothing to do with the race or the culture anymore, its the individual...