[godwine]

Just to clear things up, i will give you 2 out of 100 of examples i can find you

1. A friend of mine, Canadian born Chinese, went to Japan to teach English a few years back. He wasn't in Tokyo, I don't remeber where he was, but according to him "Far from Tokyo", and its a very very remote area. He got hitched with a Japanese girl that worked at a local minjuku. When he brought the girl back in Canada, things were great until she got her status. She just walk out one day

2. My wife's co-worker, typical geeky 300 lbs sweaty caucasian guy. He went to China three years ago, to some sub-class farming city where kids will surround him and follow him (or any foreigners) because its fascinating to them. Anyways found himself a girl that he really liked, practice mandarin like nut because the girl don't speak a word of English, finally got her in and married her early 2009. She didn't walk out, but she divorced him as soon as she got her landed immigrant status.... and because she has no income at all, he is still supporting her

That for the traditional girls you were talking about...