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Exactly. Also, note that if one is not an easily trusting person (he/she does not easily trust someone) it usually means that that person canot be trusted as well. See, with human relations is like this. You come forward and offer your trust by revealing your true self. If it is not appreciated you simply forget that person and move along. With time, you can tell with greater ease (sense it) who is worth and who is not worth wasting your time on. Consequently, if you do open yourself, people tend to trust you, as they see you being transparent. Lastly, an old Polish saying goes "Przyjaciol poznaje sie w biedzie" - which means that you learn who is your real friend in need. I dont need around me people who require a nappy to be changed each time they have to be assertive.