[OHayou]

Hi there! I can already tell you are a sweet heart, have a big heart, and that you are an intelligent woman who is very empathic and open minded. Wow! I know, that's great to hear isn't it? Well, it's true and you need to hear it.

There are a lot of people who are "lonely" out there (I point to facebook - why on Earth does someone need 3,000 friends unless they need to feel loved or important??)

The point is...no...an asian man will never date you. Lol I am entirely kidding and you shouldn't rely on any of our "advice" to tell you one way or the other (hell most of us still live with our parents and it's not like we've ever dated a girl let alone been alone with one.)

Is there any redeeming information in this post? probably not but I would suggest (even though you're not supposed to take our advice) to observe the rule of "proximity".

1) Learn the language of your desired Asian country.
2) Start attending local events (if you can) of your chosen country.
3) Log on to forums (not these forums .. all us honkay are here) with people from your chosen Asian country.


The point is: Immerse yourself in this culture and people. You know how tough it is to find a good person in the culture you know and are immersed in already. If you only come into contact with 2 or 3 asian guys every year you'll never "screen" through enough to find one you connect with!

You can take my advice because I'm 32 and if you need anymore I live with my mom and when she isn't at the bar she's home with me watching tv and loves to chat.