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Originally Posted by MissMisa
My point was that all women, Japanese and otherwise, are unique, and different and not always subject to these stereotypes.
but the amount of negativity towards 'white women' aka: me, has kind of got my back up a little. I am not rude, loud, impolite etc and I feel like I'm being judged by certain members and told that I cannot possibly be any better than any asian women ever.
I just like to think I don't fit this awful stereotype people are saying about 'white women' and it upsets me to think that people may believe I'm like that without knowing me - then again, I guess I wouldn't want to hang out with those people anyway ^_^;
It's upsetting because, I don't think I'm like that, and most of those are negatives in comparison to what you've said about other races. Where I am from, everything is based on politeness, I was brought up to be polite, and humble. I'm not saying I'm supa amazinz or anything, I'm just not a rude, loud person and you shouldn't think of all english women like that.
Probably taking it too personally, but when someone attributes me to being a certain way because of my skin colour it's hard not to.
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I dated for some years an English girl and It was really an entire satisfaction. A big surprise! There was nothing about loud, impolite etc..she was very intelligent, empathetic and very self-confident. I've been dating all the time white girls and I'm very satisfied. I can't find better than that
Some people saw drunk tourist girls in holiday resorts like in "ayia napa partys in Cyprus" or in "Playa del ingles partys in Gran Canaria Spain" and they thought ALL English girls should be like this. Scandinavian girls are more drunks and noisy but I'd never say that all Scandinavian girls are like this.
It's a question of level and education. Every girl is unique and different. Western men can experience bad experiences in relationship with Asiatic girls too! The risk and the disappointment is even higher! So, there is no reason to think bad about White girls. A gut relationship is a hard work and if you succeed you will get everything which you desire from a girl