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Originally Posted by OHayou

This is a very good point Kayci. A lot of people like to blame the situation they are in on everything (and everyone) but themselves. Self-honesty allows you to gauge where you are at, where you want to be, and then you can close the gap.

People who are "successful" (however you define it) take on responsibility and accountability for their actions and don't try to take the shortcut or whine and complain about their status.

Maybe you ARE the odd gaijin

Success is subjective.