i have no bubble dreams about Japan and it's society and never will. only dream i have about Japan is finding some run-down looking, obscure ramen shop with the perfect noodles that will bring me to tears when i eat them
what gets me are annoying people who basically nitpick. specially the likes of you - obviously suffering from some sort of received attention deficiency. you feel the need to show everyone around you that you are BETTER that the rest of the gaijin - that is from where comes your menu bullshit. and that is annoying because any normal person would just STFU.